Love the skin that you are in and be the best you can be. Men love women, period.
If you meet someone who doesn’t appreciate you and start that ‘you need to do this crap [lose weight, change you hair, etc] then you are with the wrong man. The man that’s for you, ‘will love you for WHO you are and WHAT you are.’ If he’s trying to change you, then he wants someone else, not you.
Because as sure I am typing this to you, he will stay along enough for you to change and still leave you. The same can be said of women, too – guys! No one should change anything about themselves unless they feel like they want to.