I hate when women abuse the system by putting a man who takes care of his child/children on child support because she is either angry at the fact that the guy has moved on or for her own selfish needs.. NOW! There are guys who are well deserving of being put on child support. Those who live life as if they dont have children and those who come and go when they want. Now as far as how the money is spent it depends. I feel as if as long as that child is fully taken care of it doesn’t matter how the money is spent. My issue is when the mom takes the money and blow it all on herself and the child is improperly taken care of..