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What are some insecurities that women have that men find attractive. For example stretch marks. Many women are self conscious about them however many men find them attractive?
+12AND what about when a woman gain weight.. they be loving that, while we work so hard to try to get the weight off. .. lmaoo… ??
+11Ahh ladies…I hate to be a party pooper, but stretch marks, love handles, weight gain. I dont mind none of them, but you guys do realize that the reason why most women have these insecurities in the 1st place is because some men dont like those things.
+12Please dont poison these ladies with that BS. Men like em thick and in shape.. You better stay in that gym. As for me, I only mess with 10 or better. I might make exceptions for a 9 on Mondays and Tuesdays. #greatness
+6One insecurity that I had was being white, but black men love me! ????
And I love black men! So all you black women better be insecure of me, because ill take your man.
+10@ Hilary,
Love the skin that you are in and be the best you can be. Men love women, period.If you meet someone who doesn’t appreciate you and start that ‘you need to do this crap [lose weight, change you hair, etc] then you are with the wrong man. The man that’s for you, ‘will love you for WHO you are and WHAT you are.’ If he’s trying to change you, then he wants someone else, not you.
Because as sure I am typing this to you, he will stay along enough for you to change and still leave you. The same can be said of women, too – guys! No one should change anything about themselves unless they feel like they want to.
+10@hillary ???????
+5We are all human. You can love the skin your in and still be insecure about somethings. We all have insecurities. There is nothing wrong with a little vulnerability.
+8Wanderers path, I agree with your overall message, but I disagree with you about not changing for anyone. As a matter of fact Im going to start a topic about this same subject of changing. I think that there is nothing wrong with being open to changing for someone, as long as it’s honest and constructive.
+7I don’t believe that anyone should have to make major or sweeping changes in one’s appearance because the other person wants you to do so. That sounds like they want a different person. If on the other hand, we are talking about changes in manner/behavior/lifestyle [he’s neat/she’s not], then these are things that need to be discussed and possibly addressed.
+7We are all beautiful creatures of nature. We come in different shapes and sizes, but we are all beautiful in our own we.
+6Not only that, but I think that society trys to cloud your mine by labeling them as flaws. @Anisha great point. Just because a feature makes you unique doesn’t mean that it is a flaw
+3@mask, couldn’t agree more!
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