May 23, 2017 at 8:55 pm #10365
What are some insecurities that women have that men find attractive. For example stretch marks. Many women are self conscious about them however many men find them attractive?+12May 23, 2017 at 9:03 pm #10367Lashawn WilliamstonParticipant
Love handles…. Some men love them to death but we women would kill to get rid of them. ???+9May 23, 2017 at 9:32 pm #10368Tawana NealyParticipant
AND what about when a woman gain weight.. they be loving that, while we work so hard to try to get the weight off. .. lmaoo… ??+11May 24, 2017 at 6:46 pm #10380Word SmithParticipant
Ahh ladies…I hate to be a party pooper, but stretch marks, love handles, weight gain. I dont mind none of them, but you guys do realize that the reason why most women have these insecurities in the 1st place is because some men dont like those things.+12May 25, 2017 at 6:10 pm #10406Lisa LorenParticipant
I would say makeup, a lot of men dont really like make-up+10May 26, 2017 at 6:36 pm #10482
I agree!!!! Men like women thick now a days. I’m thinking well what am I in the gym for???+6May 29, 2017 at 1:23 pm #10531Omar RodgersParticipant
Please dont poison these ladies with that BS. Men like em thick and in shape.. You better stay in that gym. As for me, I only mess with 10 or better. I might make exceptions for a 9 on Mondays and Tuesdays. #greatness+6May 30, 2017 at 7:18 pm #11178Hillary AdamsParticipant
One insecurity that I had was being white, but black men love me! ????
And I love black men! So all you black women better be insecure of me, because ill take your man.+10May 30, 2017 at 8:42 pm #11181Wanderers PathParticipant
Love the skin that you are in and be the best you can be. Men love women, period.
If you meet someone who doesn’t appreciate you and start that ‘you need to do this crap [lose weight, change you hair, etc] then you are with the wrong man. The man that’s for you, ‘will love you for WHO you are and WHAT you are.’ If he’s trying to change you, then he wants someone else, not you.
Because as sure I am typing this to you, he will stay along enough for you to change and still leave you. The same can be said of women, too – guys! No one should change anything about themselves unless they feel like they want to.+10May 30, 2017 at 8:55 pm #11186May 31, 2017 at 10:14 pm #11215Sofia DovilParticipant
We are all human. You can love the skin your in and still be insecure about somethings. We all have insecurities. There is nothing wrong with a little vulnerability.+8June 2, 2017 at 5:29 pm #11267Mask AppealParticipant
Wanderers path, I agree with your overall message, but I disagree with you about not changing for anyone. As a matter of fact Im going to start a topic about this same subject of changing. I think that there is nothing wrong with being open to changing for someone, as long as it’s honest and constructive.+7June 2, 2017 at 10:49 pm #11268Wanderers PathParticipant
I don’t believe that anyone should have to make major or sweeping changes in one’s appearance because the other person wants you to do so. That sounds like they want a different person. If on the other hand, we are talking about changes in manner/behavior/lifestyle [he’s neat/she’s not], then these are things that need to be discussed and possibly addressed.+7June 3, 2017 at 11:33 am #11270Black CommunityParticipant
We are all beautiful creatures of nature. We come in different shapes and sizes, but we are all beautiful in our own we.+6June 5, 2017 at 7:21 am #11399Sofia DovilParticipant
I agree with you, we are all beautiful, regardless of whatever flaws we might have.+6June 15, 2017 at 12:45 am #11762Alex SmartParticipant
There is nothing more precious to me than the beauty of a women’s perceived flaws.+4June 22, 2017 at 1:17 pm #14268
Agreed, flaws is what makes you unique and more real!+2June 23, 2017 at 7:09 am #14291Mask AppealParticipant
Not only that, but I think that society trys to cloud your mine by labeling them as flaws. @Anisha great point. Just because a feature makes you unique doesn’t mean that it is a flaw+3June 23, 2017 at 2:43 pm #14294July 6, 2017 at 10:11 am #14638Isabella GonzalezParticipant
A real man will love you for who you are, in spite of your flaws.+1
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