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  • #3883
    Shawn SpaldingShawn Spalding
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    What’s harder…moving on, letting go or starting over???

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    #3885
    Lisa LorenLisa Loren
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    I think that it letting go because once you develope the strength to let go, then its a little easier to move on.

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    #3888
    Mask AppealMask Appeal
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    Wow! Thats a great question. Those are some tuff choices. I would say that the hardest out of the 3 options is probably starting over. Its scary because its new territory and you dont know what to expect. Sometimes the grass isn’t always greener and there is no turning back. However, Eventhough it is the most scary it can also turn out to be the biggest blessing as well.

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    #3894
    Sky RobertsSky Roberts
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    They are all hard to do. Whether its from a relationship, a job, or an environment. I would say that the hardest is probably letting go, because thats where it starts.

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    #3924
    Tawana NealyTawana Nealy
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    Yea, I definitely think holdING on is way more harder, especially if the relationship is toxic and both are not on the same level anymore. Sometimes letting go is more healing and would probably give you and that person more peace of mind…. staying in a relationship because of circumstances is never good, and will hurt you more if you hold on to things that are not making you happy

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    #6340
    Omar RodgersOmar Rodgers
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    It is harder to start over more than anything

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    #8058
    Isabella GonzalezIsabella Gonzalez
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    moving on is the hardest thing to do

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    #9137
    AnishaRay RayAnishaRay Ray
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    Both is draining on your conscience, but everyone has to go through it in life.

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    #9143
    Francisco HolguinFrancisco Holguin
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    Both are though. I personally believe that letting go/moving on is the hardest part because it’s difficult for most people to let go of their past or a person that they have given 100% of themselves to. However, starting over isnt necessarily a bad thing. It can be exciting because it symbolizes shredding the past and showing the world the new you and usually that means that you have let go of the past and are now ready to move on.

    But I believe we need these experiences in life because you can only grow from them. Situations like heartaches test you in so many levels emotionally, mentally, and sometimes even spiritually. As much as it hurts, we need the pain in order to grow.

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    #9172
    Sofia DovilSofia Dovil
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    Wow! @Fancisco well said! I do believe that letting go is the hardest.

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    #10404
    Word SmithWord Smith
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    Its hard to move on. Especially if you been with someone for a long time.

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    #11301
    Hillary AdamsHillary Adams
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    Moving on is the hardest and the worst. Sometimes you can get so comfortable.

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    #11329
    Lashawn WilliamstonLashawn Williamston
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    I believe letting go is the hardest because in many instances people have moved on but have yet to let go. People be in a whole new situation but can’t dedicate 100 % of themselves because they have not yet let the previous one go. So i say letting go would be the hardest.

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    #11713
    AnishaRay RayAnishaRay Ray
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    Moving on can be pretty scary because you have to put yourself out there all over again. Meeting someone new, building that trust, seeing of you both are compatible. Wondering if they will disappoint you and waste your time. That process can make a person anxious.

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