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January 23, 2017 at 11:45 pm #3883
Shawn Spalding
ParticipantWhat’s harder…moving on, letting go or starting over???
+6January 24, 2017 at 12:46 am #3885Lisa Loren
ParticipantI think that it letting go because once you develope the strength to let go, then its a little easier to move on.
+5January 24, 2017 at 1:37 am #3888Mask Appeal
ParticipantWow! Thats a great question. Those are some tuff choices. I would say that the hardest out of the 3 options is probably starting over. Its scary because its new territory and you dont know what to expect. Sometimes the grass isn’t always greener and there is no turning back. However, Eventhough it is the most scary it can also turn out to be the biggest blessing as well.
+6January 24, 2017 at 11:35 am #3894Sky Roberts
ParticipantThey are all hard to do. Whether its from a relationship, a job, or an environment. I would say that the hardest is probably letting go, because thats where it starts.
+6January 24, 2017 at 7:02 pm #3924Tawana Nealy
ParticipantYea, I definitely think holdING on is way more harder, especially if the relationship is toxic and both are not on the same level anymore. Sometimes letting go is more healing and would probably give you and that person more peace of mind…. staying in a relationship because of circumstances is never good, and will hurt you more if you hold on to things that are not making you happy
+6February 25, 2017 at 9:31 am #6340Omar Rodgers
ParticipantIt is harder to start over more than anything
+5March 31, 2017 at 8:33 pm #8058Isabella Gonzalez
Participantmoving on is the hardest thing to do
+6April 24, 2017 at 9:31 pm #9137AnishaRay Ray
ParticipantBoth is draining on your conscience, but everyone has to go through it in life.
+6April 25, 2017 at 12:38 am #9143Francisco Holguin
ParticipantBoth are though. I personally believe that letting go/moving on is the hardest part because it’s difficult for most people to let go of their past or a person that they have given 100% of themselves to. However, starting over isnt necessarily a bad thing. It can be exciting because it symbolizes shredding the past and showing the world the new you and usually that means that you have let go of the past and are now ready to move on.
But I believe we need these experiences in life because you can only grow from them. Situations like heartaches test you in so many levels emotionally, mentally, and sometimes even spiritually. As much as it hurts, we need the pain in order to grow.
+6April 25, 2017 at 10:44 pm #9172Sofia Dovil
ParticipantWow! @Fancisco well said! I do believe that letting go is the hardest.
+6May 25, 2017 at 2:05 pm #10404Word Smith
ParticipantIts hard to move on. Especially if you been with someone for a long time.
+4June 3, 2017 at 3:29 pm #11301Hillary Adams
ParticipantMoving on is the hardest and the worst. Sometimes you can get so comfortable.
+2June 3, 2017 at 7:11 pm #11329Lashawn Williamston
ParticipantI believe letting go is the hardest because in many instances people have moved on but have yet to let go. People be in a whole new situation but can’t dedicate 100 % of themselves because they have not yet let the previous one go. So i say letting go would be the hardest.
+1June 12, 2017 at 10:41 pm #11713AnishaRay Ray
ParticipantMoving on can be pretty scary because you have to put yourself out there all over again. Meeting someone new, building that trust, seeing of you both are compatible. Wondering if they will disappoint you and waste your time. That process can make a person anxious.
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