June 6, 2017 at 3:26 pm #11440Lashawn WilliamstonParticipant
Im currently watching divorce court (as usual) ?. So this young couple are coming to get an approval of marriage. So long story short, they are 19 and 21. The young lady purposely cheated on the guy, set it up for him to walk In on it just so that he could feel the pain that she felt during the past few months of their relationship. However, he said he never physically cheated on her but he definitely sought attention from other women mentally and emotionally. In which she feels is equal if not worse than the physical. So my question is do you believe in “revenge cheats” or is it an excuse to soar your royal oats ??+7June 6, 2017 at 4:08 pm #11451Tawana NealyParticipant
Soar you Royal Oats lol ( epic) I don’t believe in revenge cheat, I don’t see what you get out of it. You and the person lose in the situation especially if you continue your relationship with the person.+9June 6, 2017 at 7:04 pm #11455Mask AppealParticipant
I think that when you are in your rational mind its easy to say no you wont do it, but in the heat of the moment people get lost in their emotionls.
Its like road rage, you can be a calm person, but the moment someone cut you off, the anger and rage takes over you and you immediately get lost in your emotion.+7June 6, 2017 at 7:51 pm #11456AnishaRay RayParticipant
I understand why one would want to “revenge cheat” however, after that, everything changes. Whenever things get a little rough, im sure insecurities would resurface and accusations will start flying. I don’t totally believe in that whole an aye for an eye thing.+7June 7, 2017 at 10:03 am #11473Omar RodgersParticipant
Revenge cheating is the best, but I dont cheat out of revenge, I cheap with honesty+3June 13, 2017 at 6:54 pm #11743Word SmithParticipant
If you cheat on me, you better believe im going to cheat on you. As a matter of fact some times I kinda want my old lady to cheat, just so I could have an excuse to cheat.+3June 17, 2017 at 9:02 pm #11835Sky RobertsParticipant
Instead of getting revenge just move on. Its not worth the headache+4June 19, 2017 at 9:15 am #14215Julie GelinParticipant
Move on… not worth the time+4June 25, 2017 at 10:07 am #14337Charles WatersParticipant
That’s like replacing one headache for an even bigger headache. Just move on or forgive+4June 25, 2017 at 2:56 pm #14339AnishaRay RayParticipant
Agreed, it’s much simpler to move on+2June 25, 2017 at 7:30 pm #14346Wanderers PathParticipant
Revenge cheating is like when people use ‘alcohol,’ under the guise of: ‘oh, I was drinking when I did [fill in the blank with whatever stupid thing you did], but I didn’t mean it.’ Yes, the hell you did?! Just be a freakin’ adult about it and say I did it to get back at you and move on.
Bottom Line: JUST DON’T DO IT.+4June 27, 2017 at 10:23 pm #14387Lolly ElenaParticipant
I dont condone it, but in the heat of the moment people tend to get lost in their feelings.+2July 8, 2017 at 10:14 pm #14662Isabella GonzalezParticipant
A good idea at all.+2
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