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As soon as you decide to take things serious. You dont want to make the mistake of waiting too late because it will create crucial conflict.
+7Great Question @tawana as @mask said once you decide that this is whom you plan to move forward with SERIOUSLY that’s when I believe things should take place at that time. I mean you don’t go around introducing your children to everyone you meet but also in order to decide to make things serious they must first meet my children I have to see the chemistry and let my children get a feel of the person and of course you don’t do this right away but definitely before you go and make a decision that may potentially not be so good for your children. A lot of parents, believe it or not only think about the likes of themselves. Just because a person can make you feel good and make you happy doesn’t mean they are good for your children.
+6Exactly.. and it’s sad that alot of women I know does this; Bring a man around their children way too soon. A women should definitely be sure that this man is right for her and that she see herself with this man long-term. In order to do this, you need to have been with this man for a year or so( my opinion). You as a woman need to be comfortable first. I see this alot, where the women is not 100% comfortable, then got the nerve to bring a man who around you child. Imagine how uncomfortable the child will be… smh. Then you find on the news that this man, you just met has child abused or done something inappropriate to your child/ren.
+5Alot of things can be avoided if you take a step back and look at the situation. … you can’t obviously be in love after 3 months. Think SAFETY first for you kids and their well being
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