March 3, 2017 at 11:42 pm #6658
Well I never personally liked guys who can’t be them honest self… its like a fucking cat fish to me. Why not speak ya tru intents upon meeting a wombman ?+6March 4, 2017 at 9:43 am #6663Charles WatersParticipant
I understand your pointbof view, but in fairness I think that we all do that. It is natural to hold back, especially in the beginning. We are creatures of fear and men hate or dont know how to sometimes show their vulnerability.+4March 4, 2017 at 10:32 am #6667Wanderers PathParticipant
The hardest thing in this life, ‘is to truly be accepted for who you really are.’ To allow yourself to open up to another human being, be willing to be vulnerable – taking a chance of not being accepted after all of that can be truly devastating to most people. So, people rather hide, shield themselves, insulate themselves from being rejected from the pain that would ensue. It is human nature. Very few of us would probably open ourselves up to that sort of exposure just at the beginning. But, in order for the relationship to go anywhere – via friendship or otherwise, one must take the chance and go out on a limb, not exposing everything at once, but a little at a time and see how it goes.+6March 5, 2017 at 12:55 am #6687Lisa LorenParticipant
I hear you on that one. Women are more emotional than men. Sometimes men act as though they are incapable of love and thing like that+4March 5, 2017 at 5:40 pm #6706Sky RobertsParticipant
Its complicated because in the beginning you want to be as real as possible with that person, but you dont want to give them all of you, so you hold certain things back+4March 6, 2017 at 10:12 pm #6735
beautiful+3March 7, 2017 at 12:11 am #6749Mask AppealParticipant
Feelings and emotions are like plants. They grow. You can water it with time, you can water it with love, and you can water it with patience. Sometime people dont show their feelings in the beginning, because their feeling havnt quite manifested.+6March 7, 2017 at 12:11 pm #6776Word SmithParticipant
I dont have nothing to hide, I always let my intentions by know especially in the beginning.
Excuse me how are you, nice to meet you. I want to sleep with you!+6March 7, 2017 at 12:21 pm #6779Lashawn WilliamstonParticipant
The sad part is, some people much rather fall for the foolery rather than a blunt straight forward person. #smh+1March 10, 2017 at 7:41 pm #6973Omar RodgersParticipant
I keeps it 100. Recognize my greatness from the jump. Hi, I’m Omar. They cal l me the big “O”, the pleasure is yours to meet me.+5March 10, 2017 at 7:47 pm #6975March 16, 2017 at 8:32 pm #7476AnishaRay RayParticipant
Majority of the time, when you first meet someone, you meet their representative first, until they get comfortable and feel like they trust you, then you meet the real them lol+4March 18, 2017 at 11:19 pm #7531
Wow i like your honesty lol+3March 19, 2017 at 10:00 am #7540Mask AppealParticipant
Omar, wow! I guess all of the world is blinded by the shine of your greatness.
I think that it is wise not to reveal all of yourself to people in the beginning. I’m not saying to be fake or hide your true self. What I saying is, you should gradually grow with that person as the comfort and trust grows. When you reveal too much sometimes thats like giving someone a knife to stab you in the back. Trust is not something you give, trust is something you earn.+4March 20, 2017 at 1:51 pm #7569Charles WatersParticipant
Amen!! To the Trust part!
Also, I think that women are more emotional when it comes to showing their raw emotions; men on the other hand struggle with showing their emotions.+3May 17, 2017 at 8:52 am #10135Sofia DovilParticipant
I think that women too also hide their feelings in the begining too just as much as men do.+1
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