Why do men hide their feelings in the begining of relationships

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  • #6658
    Natavia KingNatavia King
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    Well I never personally liked guys who can’t be them honest self…  its like a fucking cat fish to me. Why not speak ya tru intents upon meeting a wombman ?

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    #6663
    Charles WatersCharles Waters
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    I understand your pointbof view, but in fairness I think that we all do that. It is natural to hold back, especially in the beginning. We are creatures of fear and men hate or dont know how to sometimes show their vulnerability.

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    #6667
    Wanderers PathWanderers Path
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    The hardest thing in this life, ‘is to truly be accepted for who you really are.’ To allow yourself to open up to another human being, be willing to be vulnerable – taking a chance of not being accepted after all of that can be truly devastating to most people. So, people rather hide, shield themselves, insulate themselves from being rejected from the pain that would ensue. It is human nature. Very few of us would probably open ourselves up to that sort of exposure just at the beginning. But, in order for the relationship to go anywhere – via friendship or otherwise, one must take the chance and go out on a limb, not exposing everything at once, but a little at a time and see how it goes.

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    #6687
    Lisa LorenLisa Loren
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    I hear you on that one. Women are more emotional than men. Sometimes men act as though they are incapable of love and thing like that

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    #6706
    Sky RobertsSky Roberts
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    Its complicated because in the beginning you want to be as real as possible with that person, but you dont want to give them all of you, so you hold certain things back

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    #6735
    Natavia KingNatavia King
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    beautiful

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    #6749
    Mask AppealMask Appeal
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    Feelings and emotions are like plants. They grow. You can water it with time, you can water it with love, and you can water it with patience. Sometime people dont show their feelings in the beginning, because their feeling havnt quite manifested.

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    #6776
    Word SmithWord Smith
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    I dont have nothing to hide, I always let my intentions by know especially in the beginning.

    Excuse me how are you, nice to meet you. I want to sleep with you!

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    #6779
    Lashawn WilliamstonLashawn Williamston
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    The sad part is, some people much rather fall for the foolery rather than a blunt straight forward person. #smh

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    #6973
    Omar RodgersOmar Rodgers
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    I keeps it 100. Recognize my greatness from the jump. Hi, I’m Omar. They cal l me the big “O”, the pleasure is yours to meet me.

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    #6975
    Lashawn WilliamstonLashawn Williamston
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    Lol @omar, you are seriously confident huh?

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    #7476
    AnishaRay RayAnishaRay Ray
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    Majority of the time, when you first meet someone, you meet their representative first, until they get comfortable and feel like they trust you, then you meet the real them lol

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    #7531
    Natavia KingNatavia King
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    Wow i like your honesty lol

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    #7540
    Mask AppealMask Appeal
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    Omar, wow! I guess all of the world is blinded by the shine of your greatness.

    I think that it is wise not to reveal all of yourself to people in the beginning. I’m not saying to be fake or hide your true self. What I saying is, you should gradually grow with that person as the comfort and trust grows. When you reveal too much sometimes thats like giving someone a knife to stab you in the back. Trust is not something you give, trust is something you earn.

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    #7569
    Charles WatersCharles Waters
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    Amen!! To the Trust part!
    Also, I think that women are more emotional when it comes to showing their raw emotions; men on the other hand struggle with showing their emotions.

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    #10135
    Sofia DovilSofia Dovil
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    I think that women too also hide their feelings in the begining too just as much as men do.

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