August 3, 2017 at 5:47 pm #14931Lashawn WilliamstonParticipant
Ladies are you that woman that wouldn’t mind proposing to her mate? Fellas would you mind a woman proposing to you? What are you guy’s thoughts on the whole situation? It’s a Hell No for me, i mean to each it’s own but nothing says desperate and/or thirsty more than a woman proposing to a man and it’s just my thoughts on it!!+2August 3, 2017 at 7:25 pm #14934
I dont necessarily think that its being desperate or thirsty. I think that everyboby situation is different. Sometimes I think that we can be such prisoners of traditions that we dont open up the door for other possibilities. With that said I still think that a man should propose to the woman, but I think that times are different.
I mean you got men proposing to other men, and women proposing to other women, and transgenders proposing to each other. You got gay pastors preaching the gospel. Weather we agree with it or not the rules have changed. And dont think that its fair to criticize the straight folk for doing things different, when everybody else and they mama out here living by abnormal rules standards.+3August 6, 2017 at 4:31 pm #14940Tawana NealyParticipant
It’s really sad that women have to take the role of a man.. let’s not really focus on other people belief and how they doin things..”WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO KEEP YOUR MORALS” OBVIOUS, if women are proposing, they are probably tired of waiting in a long term relationship with this man. And see that’s the reason why women are out numbered by men by their empowerment and ability to make society all about WOMEN and their strength in the way of doing things. It’s another reason why you are now finding a lot of women crossing over to be with other women. Because these women are stepping up taking things to the next level, doin things men are not attempting to do.. .. sorry fellas, SOME of yall are truly under rated at the way you allowing women to take over things you ARe responsible to do..?. ( Dhat Part) ↖↖
I can’t stand to see a women do it..!! Stop trying to look at what other people are doin, MAKING it a trend, like that’s the way Life suppose to do..??+2August 6, 2017 at 6:51 pm #14941
@Tuwanna I disagree. If women are crossing over because they are tired of waiting on a man to propose then thats defeat the whole purpose. In fact thats a part of the problem. The reason why over 50% of marriage end in divorce is people put to much of the focus on getting married and less of the focus on be being happily married.
To me instead of investing useless energy in waiting around, invest that energy in focusing on doing your part to make the relationship better… And then that man will be sure to propose. To me it is foolish for a women to sit around being salty, when she could instead try to focus on becoming a good woman for that man. If you as a woman believe that it is a man’s job to propose, then you gotta give that man all the reason to marry you.
Also, I do strongly believe that it is a mans job to propose to a women, but the point I was making is: life is what you make it. There is no such thing as the way it is supposed to be, life is what you make it.
Im sorry ladies, but you can’t have your cake and eat it too, if you want a man to propose to you, you gotta step up to the plate. Be there to support your man through thick and thin. Take pride in satisfying your man and making sure that he dont have to seek pleasure from no where else. Cook every now and then, clean. Ride for your man and everything else will take care of it self. MY ADVICE IS, STOP ASKING YOURSELF WHATS THE PROBLEM AND FOCUS ON THE SOLUTION. SIMPLE☔☔☔??+2August 7, 2017 at 1:18 pm #14949AnishaRay RayParticipant
Issa no for me. That’s not what I envision for myself. However if it works for others, good for them.+2August 8, 2017 at 3:17 pm #14954
I am not that dude to act like everything is all breezy for a women to propose to a man. However, every couple’s fairy tale is different. Some get married within the first 3 months. Some people been together over 30yrs and isn’t married. Some people are happily married and some people’s marriage is like hell.
And Also, like I said in today’s society, I dont see how one could logically rationalize a man proposing to another man, but yet see faults in a women proposing to a man. True love between a man and a woman shouldn’t be confined by rule or tradition.
Also, to my ladies out there, who are tired of waiting on your man to propose to you. Do yourself a favor and look yourself in the mirror, because you are blind. The irony of you villianizing the man without holding yourself accountable is ridiculous. Life dont allow you to have your cake and eat it too. Your just as much to blame.+2August 8, 2017 at 11:30 pm #14963Omar RodgersParticipant
Now, Yall know that I dont have a problem with it.+1
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